So me and my SO have been together on and off for about 4 years we share a child together and have our own kids from past relationships. I have 2 he has 2 so we have 5 total.
I love his children as much as my 3 biological but lately I've been looking at one of his kid and really wondering if the child's actually his..
Long story short when I met him he was divorcing his ex wife he told me that in order to try and save his marriage they agreed to have another child well shortly after that child was born she up and left took the kids with her and started seeing her highschiil sweet heart that she was cheating in him with. So now im left to wonder was she already pregnant and in order to cover up her cheating agreed to have another kid to pass it off as his... idk but this is really bothering me and I dont want to talk to him about it because I feel he has enough going in in his life. And they do have a bond and I don't want to destroy that but at the same time I don't feel it's right for him to be paying child support for a kid that isn't actually his.. so idk I feel better just kind of talking it out with strangers and maybe the right thing to do is just keep my mouth shut but idk.