It's Been A While
Hello STalkers!! It's been a while since I've logged in. Funny I see new names but the same ol same ol stories. Yep, it never changes.
Just a funny story for today. I don't do too much for the skids, but occasionally I'm nice, usually regret it later. I came home at 7pm and they hadn't eaten so I offered McDonalds or Wendy's. DuH was not feeling well with a headache and fell asleep. I told SS12 to ask SD18 if she wanted anything and I'd be waiting outside. He comes out with no shoes and says SD wants a frosty and goes back in, I figured for shoes. I waited and waited and go in and the two SSs are still playing video games. I guess they just assume I will go get it for them and serve it on a platter. I asked, 'you coming?'. 'Oh, we're coming with?' Well yes, I don't know your order. I should have just walked upstairs for the night when they didn't come out because they were glued to their games, I'm just not in the mood for a war. Every damn thing turns in to an arguement here. If I ditch the kids and say fuck it then DuH comes up in defensive mode "Did you tell them they're getting Wendys?" And it starts.
Note to self: Dont be nice in Skidville. It's never worth it and it mostly blows up in my face.
Kids are fed, DuH is on the couch, hopefully stays there. When SD21 moves next month, I think I'm going to take her room. I really don't like being around DuH. I am working on finding work that will provide me with insurance and a salary good enough to survive. I have a goal amount of money that I want to leave with. I will be 60% there by the end of August.
Hope my fellow STalkers are enjoying summer as much as possible with the skids out of school. Any good quarantine stories???
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The kids could have
The kids could have microwaved something but I felt kindhearted today. I wouldn't say it blew up in my face but it made me shake my head and wonder why I was doing it. THey just sit there playing video games while I wait like an asshole outside. THe kids thanked me and DuH thanked me, he slept like 3 or 4 hours and woke up to come to bed and fall back asleep. Bad headache.
He should watch Dr. Jason
He should watch Dr. Jason Fung's videos on youtube about fasting. Chef lost 51 lbs and is no longer miserable
Well dang, I wish win I had a
Well dang, I wish win I had a migraine I could just sleep and ignore my duties as a parent. That would be great!
I understand wanting to be nice to skids and then regretting it. I've done that far to many times myself.
I'm glad to hear you have an exit plan. Your DuH needs to parent his own spawns and if he has a headache oh freaking well. I guess this really irks me b/c my DH pulls this shit. Oh, "my back hurts", "my neck hurts" or whatever his endless list of complaints may be so then he expects me to do all the work. If I'm doing everything what is the point of having him?!?!
I need to come up with a plan like you. Only my plan is how to get DH out of MY home and protect my assets.
Next time: Door dash with DH
Next time: Door dash with DH's credit card. Kids can handle it themselves.
It was a simple trip to Wendy
It was a simple trip to Wendy's. Only skids could make it this annoying. Haha.
Also it was almost $20 for 2 sandwiches, 2 fries and one frosty. What the heck. DH will pay for it. I put it on my card that he pays.
Quarantine Stories
Toxic Troll Bm: She has gone to Hawaii, back right when this COVID lockdown started, using her child support check as her "spending money". Was chased by her date with a hatchet. Has since moved on to another dude, who lives and works in LA, at an airport, and they have met a few times for hijinx at hotels. He spent a few days at her grubby 1 bedroom apartment. She bought a dog back in march, a husky shiba inu backyard breeder mix. Who poops and pees inside. So Dh tells me a ripe smell wafts to the outside at drop off.
BM has been the same toxic troll she always is. Called my husband weak and pathetic. Im the controlling b. Sure Bm, whatever. Just stay the eff away from us.
Feral Forger SD21: She has been couch surfing in and out with her friends, drinking and smoking (vapes), dying her hair regularly. Not wearing masks. Stealing Munchkins things at 3 am. Right now she is in Utah...
Munchkin SD14: Shes become a bit afraid of COVID and stays inside doing...not much. Except "fixing" her mother.
She has also taken to being the "fixer" for her mother, insisting BM wear a pesky mask and try to stay home more. And getting her into better housing by insisting she apply for section 8 housing. You know as a disabled single woman with a CHILD to support ALL BY HERSELF. Yup, she is convincing everyone she is disabled due to her head injury and now she also has MS.
She went fishing with us on our new Boat. which brings me to us...
We were doing shots of tequila and thought it would be a good idea to buy a fishing boat. You know, because food insecurity. ANd it seem like a good idea at the time...! So we bought one and bought a new motor for it. DH has been fishing every weekend and now we have a brilliant tax write-off - because we have been working full time during the lockdown, and really need something to write off.
Still love my job, too!
Glad that you are getting to a calmer place and getting your financial ducks in a row, although sooner than later is better.
Im sorry to hear that
Im sorry to hear that Munchkin is inclined to 'fix' TT. They always go back to the BM, no matter how good you were to her CLove. It always confuses me why being a shitty toxic bio mom makes you better than a loving responsible step mom in the eyes of a child. Keep loving CLove.
You're too kind. It's great
You're too kind. It's great that you've got an exit plan. I haven't got one, really. Just kinda settled into routine here and then feeling pissed about stuff. I'm so hopeless as compared to you! At least you're 60% saved up and moving along. Well done you.
kids in general are ungrateful, but I think some skids have the mentality of 'if you can't give me a complete family then you can do more for me to make up for it' or 'now that you're with my mum/dad, you're my new slave' kinda thing. I mean, I know they DONT say that but sometimes they sure do act like that!