My husband won’t correct his adult daughters rude behavior toward me
I guess I should amend my blog to say my husband jumps on my step daughters bandwagon when she’s being rude to me. Then privately he will talk about how he doesn’t approve of her behavior. But she’s 24 and been doing this since she was 16. When we got married she was so outraged she joined her grandparents in a lawsuit for her to go live with them because by marrying me he was emotionally abusing her. Here we are still married. She has finished college and after a couple of years off, she’s now attending D.O. School to be a physician like him. He is so excited that they will be practicing together. I’m not. Everything with her is so divisive. She only talks about friends and relatives from pre me. She makes insulting comments usually indicating my stupidity. She physically separates us when the three of us are walkinking or sitting in a restaurant. I just don’t want to be around them anymore. I’m the outsider and it’s like they are married. They have coffee together in the mornings when she’s in and have these hours long discussions of religious or political beliefs or her becoming a doctor like him. I try to sit with them but they just don’t acknowledge me unless it’s to tell me to do something. If I try to join in I am quickly dismissed and they keep talking like I’m not there. Now they are going to practice together? Am I being petty? Every boyfriend she has had he doesn’t think is good enough so she breaks up with them. They talk on the phone when she’s not actually here for the longest time. Is it wrong that I don’t feel close to my husband after they get off phone or finally wrap up their pow wows? Is it me who’s wrong ?