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Forgiving and Forgetting

trytomakeitwork's picture

Submitted by trytomakeitwork on Thu, 05/05/2011 - 4:38pm

How does a person go about trying to forget what a child has said and done. This child has just come back to live with us and the stress is crazy how do we deal with it.

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alwaysanxious's picture

Submitted by alwaysanxious on Thu, 05/05/2011 - 5:09pm

I don't forget ANYTHING. Dealing... disengage.

trytomakeitwork's picture

Submitted by trytomakeitwork on Thu, 05/05/2011 - 5:29pm

Well I know I will never forget but how do I try to look pass what has happen and try to accept him being around. I do my own thing but can't keep ignoring the kid am fine with my girl and his other child just this one wow lol.

Yme's picture

Submitted by Yme on Thu, 05/05/2011 - 5:50pm

oh YES you can ignore the kid......:-) Takes practice as some others have MASTERed it...ME? Im still working on it...Had situation where SS19 came back twice to live with us...He was in trouble...so he had his tail tucked and THANK God He is lovable...He really is not a PIA most of the time....So it was easier for me....I cant seem to forget the pain my SD13 causes though...Forgiving...that may be the only answer....
Hang in there and here....seems blogging and seeing what others are going through REALLY helps me cope.....
Lots of us are here to listen to your rants and rages....:-)

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Submitted by trytomakeitwork on Thu, 05/05/2011 - 10:20pm

am not sure if i will ever figure it out but it is very hard that is for sure thanks everyone for your thoughts on the issue I just join this but I think it might be a gd thing that is for sure.It just bugs me that he acts like nothing has happen but yet no one has ever done what he has and it is hard get over it.