So I'm not sure why but I am just getting drama on all fronts lately. And I HATE drama...I have zero patience with it.
Anyway this is what I got going on that's making me crazy:

1. My SS9 had his tonsils out and it was our weekend with him. IDK why BM scheduled it that way, but now I am expected to play nurse since I WFH most of the time. That's not so bad, but she is expecting regular updates and wanting to control what goes on in my house. I normally don't play that shit at all, but I am really trying to avoid upsetting the poor kid when he just had surgery. Plus I know as a mom myself, it's hard when you can't be around your kids when they need you. But she is taking advantage. She showed up at my house at 9:30 last night to "vist" SS because she just had to see him, but today is her day, she's picking him up after work, you couldn't wait less than 24hrs? Or come earlier at a more reasonable time? Really?

2. My adopted daughter's (former step) BM rode in on a white horse to play Grandma about six months ago when she found out AD had a baby. Baby is 9mos old now. I went to see her yesterday, her BM dropped by while I was there. I was playing with the baby and this bitch says to me "You're so good with kids...bet you can't wait to have your OWN grandkids" BITCH I had to adopt your kid cause you were such a shitty mom, but now you're claiming the grandkid?

3. FDH has beef with me over putting down $2000 dollars on my BD19's car (see previous blog). I don't feel bad at all, but now since I am refusing to engage in any more arguing, he's being very passive agressive with her. He's been making snide comments and just overall being a prick. We went to her apt, it was a mess and he said in front of her that I should have spent the money on a maid service instead of a car. He also said after we left that her being kind a slob shows irresponsibility. I disagree, I think it shows a lack of time as she is working fulltime and going to university as well.
So since fucking with my kid is not cool and I don't want to have to kill him, I sat him down to have a talk today. He thinks his way is the only way, but newsflash, it's my kid. And she's on her own with a job and going to university. It's even a good job for a kid in college. $13 an hour with benefits, which is decent in our state. She took college classes in high school and will graduate early. So there's no reason to pick on her. Your kid who keeps her room in her momma's house spotless, is making $9 an hour, has changed her major twice and recently said she's not sure it's worth continuing to pay for school when she isn't sure what she wants to do. So guess what asshole, my kid will able to afford to hire yours as her maid, thanks for teaching her so well!
I really wish he would see how hard he makes it on me with trying to dictate what I can do for/with my kids. We have separate finances and I don't ask you to do anything for them, let it be, please!

4. FDH's dad died recently....I don't like FMIL and she is around a lot lately. I understand why but I need a break please.

5. My parents....my dad can't care for himself so he lives here full time and my mom doesn't live here but needs lots of help. This is not out of the norm but just one more thing I have to deal with.

5. Wedding planning....need I say more? ugggggghhhhhhh

Thanks for listening....and those of you who pray I could use some cause I am getting burned out.