Narcissistic Ex Wife has turned stepchildren against me, their father and into MONSTERS
I cannot believe I have been a stepparent - a miserable one = for ten years and have just now found this site...where have you all been???!!!! My husband's ex has controlled and manipulated our lives the entire time, just so I can find out too little too late that she has narcissistic personality disorder and has completely ruined their children. I cannot even begin to tell you the nightmare my life has been because of her and my ignorance to her condition. I always wondered why she was so vindictive, deceitful, hateful and then turn around and act like a saint two minutes later. If anyone has this problem, PLEASE FEEL FREE TO VENT TO ME - I completely understand. I found out in May that my father was dying from cancer - it was at that precise time she planned her most vicious attack - using the children - and turning them into pawns in an all out war that has left us a family divided. When my father passed away one month later, my three stepchildren that I had (I thought) lovingly helped raise for the past 10 years were not welcome at my father's funeral and are no longer welcome in my home - it is that bad. Anyone out there in my shoes?