Well thank you! I am sure this will help me regain my sanity. I feel like to tell my story would take a lifetime! I left out quite a bit in my response to the person below! I forgot to mention the ultimate hide & seek players, the punching the kid, lying, going behind my back, wedding day crap (well not really wedding day ha). Bridal shower aka wedding celebration rescheduling of events due to SD this that or the other. I really could go on and on and on and on

She is very "off". For the longest time I genuinely liked her. I looked to her as a friend. I confided in her and we actually hung out and went places together. And then all of a sudden just like that BAM. All these lies began to surface. Her husband left her on mother day, she called me, I went rushing.. 2 days later she was with child, 4 days after that she was bleeding terribly bad and at the ER. Her car was @ home, she was never w child therefore she never lost a baby bc there never was one and I felt as if I'd gotten hit from the side by a semi truck going 1000 mph. Then everything began coming out. I found out she never pd daycare fees for the entire summer, was going to a pain management clinic aka getting pain meds when she didn't need them. Witnessed her incoherent on several different occasions.. and I could keep going for days.. I finally put my foot down and confronted her on all of her lies with proof on the majority of them and she still lied. I backed off went about my business and kept her at an arms length. Things were fine.. mainly bc I didn't speak to her anymore. I am all for my husband and when you trash him I will come at you like a rabid monkey and attack. She began dissing him & that wasn't ok. She was always sent to our house w trashy clothes that smelt so bad of cigarettes (& at the time I smoked and still thought the smell was disgusting) it lingered in her room and throughout my house. We are very fortunate to be able to provide nice things within reason for SD and my son and the clothes she had were filth. Everything we purchased slowly went missing... down to panties and socks. Her mother and I got into an altercation over a jacket back in December of 2013. BM sent her to our house w shorts tshirts & sandals and it's December! We purchased a nice jacket for her that we told SD would stay @ our house. Mom did not like that and began cursing me screaming @ my SD, which is her daughter keep in mind, that her dad and I don't love her, we're pathetic, we're A-holes, and so on. When husband gets home and asks SD about situation, after he's already talked to BM & gotten her outrageous side of the story, SD story is identical to BM version WORD FOR WORD... ugh I could keep going but I've already written a novel. Needless to say, we have tons of problems and this isn't even the icing on the cake... this is like the bowl all the cake ingredients go in!