Husband is using his past against me
My husband has a child from his previous marriage. I take care of her when she is with us and I love her. When she was born my husbands wife at the time told him he couldn't go to the hospital or she'd call the cops. So he didn't see her born. Now I am expecting a child and he said he won't be at the hospital because it's not fair to his child he already has. It really pisses me off. I am not jealous of his daughter at all. But I don't think its right to miss the birth of our child just because his ex-wife did what she did. I'll have to have our baby by myself and that's not at all how I want it to be. How should I address the issue and make him understand? When I talk to him about it, he is so firm with how he wants it to be that I can't even speak my opinion. Any advice?