I am living with my pot smoking disrespectful stepson.
He has his own bedroom, bathroom, + garage to party in 24hrs a day . All of those area s are a complete dirty mess. He does nothing for this household at all ! My husband is O.K. with his whole drug use and his selling of drugs !! I am not and this is driving a wedge between us ! I do not even talk to my stepson (B), because I am so angry at him for his disrespect of this house hold. I am so tried of cleaning up after him. Can and will not even use the down stairs bathroom because it is so dirty !! Again my husband is o.k. with this. He has been going to a junior college for 4 yrs now !! His mom gives him what ever he wants and at the same time he is not allowed to live with her because the stepdad will not have him there! So that is how we got him. B likes to complain to his dad all the time,about every little thing I do. EX: when I leave or put the dirty dishes back in his room he tells his dad that I am being mean and I am trying to get him sick!! I am sooo tried of him and all the friction it is causing with me and my husband !! I have tried to look the other way, but it is so hard, B has all the control in this household !! My husband will do every thing in his power to make this kids life easy for him. So I am stuck with this!! I have never hated 1 person as much as I do B !! I have known him since he was 7yrs old. He changed once he went to live with mom at 14, and got involved with all the drug use, because she has lots of money and freely gives it to him. He got kicked out of her house at 18 and she got him his own place with my husband helping to pay the rent, but at 21yrs my husband +I could not keep helping to pay his rent so that is when he came to liv with us. My husband felt so bad about that and that is when he gave him the room,bathroom and garage to use. The garage has a couch,T.V. with cable a Ref,a computer,
a heater for the winter and a air conditioner for the summer !! He also has a nice china cabinet where he can store his marble collection which he has been buying and selling along with his drugs !! So through all of this I just have to keep putting up with this for the sake of my marriage !! I will not let B ,break my marriage up !!!!