DH had to get consent while at the ER with a kid with broken bones
DH called me at work to tell me that he was at the ER and BM had that she was the custodial parent on SS11 and that meant the hosptial called BM to get permission to treat him.
Hello?? In his parenting plan they BOTH have the right to medical but BM is responsible to pay all of SS11 bills. DH didn't do this to her with the other 2 kids they have.
BM is court ordered primary and she got new insurance at the beginning of the month...DH had to keep asking her for the cards. While he was at the hospital I sent an email to the GAL with the last email we received from BM in the beginning of the month that she was giving him the cards...but didn't. I also told the GAL that DH had to get consent and didn't understand why. The GAL will excuse this yet again. BM is like teflon...nothing sticks to her!! She didn't even visit her son in the hospital. I was there after work...where was she and her devoted husband???
There's a settlement conference in 2 weeks...this situation better be brought up....BM went against the decree about medical attention...but to the lawyers it doesn't mean anything at all!