Hi ya'll!! I've been what ya'll call a "luker" for a yr because til now I was reading from a phone but now I've finally caught up with the rest of the world & gotten online.
So, heres my story. I knew my husband as my nieghbor before we got together. Unfortunately I also knew his then wife & she told me way more than I ever needed to know (like that his daughter was acctually his buddies daughter) About 6 months after they split we started dateing & it was great. Except ofcourse for the fact that she is nuts! Example: I was takeing a shower about 2 yrs ago. The kids were watching a movie. Hubby was at work. I didn't hear the phone when she was calling to see if I would watch the undaughter for her So she came over broke the lock on the front door locked my bedroom door & took SS8 5hrs befor he was supposed to go home. & its been all down hill from there.
My girls (11 & 10) are incredably well adjusted young women especialy with all they have been through. Thier biobum was a severly abusive drug addict. I left him when they were 1 & 2 & we lived in a car for 3 months while I worked 2 jobs & went to school. They haven't seen thier BD in 6 yrs which they are just fine with because as far as they are concerned my husband is Daddy. & besides that I have an open ended protection order against him because in 2008 he was convicted of child pornography.
SS8 has been totally warped by BM. He lies as if it were as natural as breathing. He pees his pants and admits its because he is to busy doing something else to stop and go potty. He steals from my kids. He is abusive to my kids. He always acts like a baby unless he is angry. He pretends not to know how to read. & the list goes on & on. All these things are both reflections of BM as well as results of her saying things (right infront of us) like you shouldn't hit girls but I know you did it because they are brats or Its okay cause your still Mommies baby... So, thats me in a nutshell... For now anyway!!