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The Parasite that is BM

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Submitted by thebrokenrecord... on Thu, 01/31/2019 - 5:15pm

BM is nothing more than a parasite.She is a parasite because the courts have allowed her to artificially aquire earnings she doesnt deserve, post-divorce and for her leeches, well one who is 20 has yet to finish HS and CS could possibly continue on until 25.  Unfortunately, her parasitis has been passed on to her young and SO is beginning to see this. The judge in SOs case is imputing his income of CS to over $800/month, meanwhile he is on Employment Insurance, earning less than $2000/month- I dont see how CS can be imputed on that, when we also have a child he needs to support and he is out of work. He was let go the month before Christmas. And this was not because SO was trying to get out of paying, he has been paying for over 2 decades now.

A few years ago, a tragedy happened to a young man in another province, the end result for this poor guy was to make the decision to end his own life. He had 2 BMs and the first one, was a total nightmare. In his eulogy which is on Youtube his friend talks about the injustices of the Canadian Court System on Fathers and describes, exes as parasites, and how the law and judges give ex spouses"the artifical rights to other successes".

I am sure many have pondered, how in the H did your SO/DH end up with BM? Out of anyone out there, that is who SO had to pick. One of the most parasitic and toxic human beings, ive had the misfotrune of meeting. I ask that everyday- why?She is looking more and more like Caitlin Jenner. If we didnt have to deal with a parasite in our life, things would be less stressful I would hope. 

We have a lawyer and that is the result. SO is going to appeal it, but in the mean time SOs eldest is going to rush to finish high school suddenly and rush to get into university so SO can pay until who knows when. She is exaggerating a Social Anxiety Disorder. BM is fake as F, I saw thru her BS immediately almost 10 yrs ago. When SO and the entity were on good terms, if you want to call it that, it was her pretending to be nice to see what kind of place he was living in and how much money she could siphon from him. When I was in the picture a year later, it was drag his A into court, so she could take my money as well. Well she tried and did not succeed. I get anxiety when his beings call, it is a warning. 

I am frustrated but I have not given into the negativity, venitng on here is very therapeutic for me. 

If anyone is curious to watch the video of his friend speaking I have posted the link below:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MIlA89nYj98

I hope everyone starts there weekend off on a lighter note. If you can learn anything from reading my blogs, I hope you can learn from some of my mistakes. I should have listened to some of the advice I received as well.

Happy Thursday!

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Submitted by thinkthrice on Thu, 01/31/2019 - 8:30pm

for SD20 who dropped out of Community College and has had various part-time jobs since.  

She was labeled "learning disabled--other"  in school by the doctor shopping BM (Girhippo)  to cover for Girhippos lack of parenting.  And then there is Yss16 possibly the next school shooter.  The Girhippo also doctor shopped for him to get an IEP as well.  CS is based on gross income here.   The $800 a month is based on Chef's income that he earned probably 4 years ago $25 an hour which was the highest he's ever earned in a regular job.

All of the skids were alienated a decade ago and Chef has never seen them since.  Sad for Chef but great for me as they were the worst ferals ever.

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Submitted by Livingoutloud on Thu, 01/31/2019 - 8:51pm

I’d say injustices are not just in Canada. We are paying spousal support to able bodied BM who simply refused to work. Why? I understand if BM was disabled or kids were young. Kids are long  grown up and she is even younger than DH. Injustice 

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Submitted by CLove on Fri, 02/01/2019 - 10:54am

Thank you I was looking for a good one-word description of Toxic Troll. (because Toxic Troll is 2 words...)

She has been separated from DH since 2012, apparently, yet claimed during the divorce the month of the start of our relationship. Still recieving alimony for another 1 year and 5 months. Im like "how the eh did she get you to marry her? Oh yeah, 2 kids...." And just recently filed for child support, and is getting that now. We keep our finances separate, because after shared expenses, alimony and CS, he has basically $50 in his account left over. He has nothing in retirement (she had calpers up until she sued the school system for her "head injury" with pre existing symptoms.)

So, for all the mothers that have it going on and are doing it themelves, or are co-parenting and finacially supporting things themselves  - heres a huge shout out. I understand that things get hairy, when you are a sahm, and the dude cheats and then abandons you... but Toxic Troll was the one who was abusive and cheating. She is the one who took off to parts unknown to meet with different dudes. Shes the one who drank until she passed out in her own puke, pooed and peed her pants. She left DH to do everything for the children.

But the system allows her to take money from our household simply because they were married and because she gave birth to his children. Its parasitic. And now she is surprised that her eldest is resentful of paying rent and gas for rides. She passed on her entitlements to her spawn, as well as her narcissism.

Yeah, I do not like child support. Especially in light of the fact that Toxic Troll just bought munchkin sd12 a $1400 ipad drawing kit. After complaining of not having rent money and being threatened with eviction.