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that's all I want. Both my SS play baseball. For the last 4 years our lives from April through mid July revolve around it no less than 5 nights a week. That is 5 nights of BM kids. Anyway this year is only 4 nights BUT we are exposed to BM & her BFF the manimal who isn't very nice to us & is loud & obnoxious. I have always gone to all the kids events rain or shine all these years but this year I have cut back on going BS will be 3 & I spend the games chasing him all over the place for 2 1/2 hours after working all day & commuting an 1 1/2. I just decieded this year their parents need to go & I need to take care of our child, our house & yard work instead. DH hates this.

So our BS is spending Mon-Thursday am 2hrs away with my parents because we have no daycare this week. Last night DH was late getting home from work, had to run back to work & then caught a part of SS10's game. I have a sinus infection & allergy induced asthma issues & wanted to go to minuet clinic so I rode with him. That brings me to tonight, we rarely have a childess evening, my parents live 2 1/2 hrs away & DH's work so we rarely have them babysit. I told DH that I would like for us to do something as a couple while he is gone BUT we have had my SS's with us or they have games everynight, BUt tonight we don't have the boys... well he just can't not go to one of their games tonight. He has missed games before because he is tired & lay his lazy ass on the couch all night but one night when we could actually do something he just has to be at one or the others game because BM wants to know what one he wants to go to so she can go to the other. She never gives this option, so we think her & manimal are on the outs ( please let that be ).

I love the boys & our time & money revolves around them & their happiness but all I am asking for is time with my husband that doesn't involve little league, my skids or BM.

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sweetthing's picture

Thanks crayon I would love to send these to BM as she is the one who creates this situation with her need to relive her own childhood. I see so much of this at the baseball games over the years.

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I have a sinus infection so I think I am just going home putting on my PJs & hanging out with Mr & Mrs weiner dog. With BS at my parents my little girl weiner is getting some extra cuddling. Smile I wish I felt better so I could get my mulching done & scrub down the bathroom walls to get the remainer of the wallpaer residue off.

I was just hoping for dinner & a movie... and he wonders why I don't seem so in love, after last weeks behavior & having to clean his dirty bathroom ( OMG he is such a pig it is embarrassing to me & my skids )I am sorry but you need to act descent inorder to get loving.

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FRiggin weenie, I just called to let him know how our son was doing & asked what he is going to do. He is going to SS12's game tonight & asked again if I wanted to go with. This is after I had told him how crappy I feel when we first started talking. Hello...big old no.

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My point was I wanted to do something with my husband. Because we have a 3 year old who lives with us & is staying with my parents I wanted us to do something as a couple. He will miss the occasional game when he wants to but when I ask he won't. Trust me the kids would understand, they are good boys who we see daily.