Hate my stepson. Am I overreacting?
I've dated my BF for over 1.5 years, still trying to figure out if I should run for the hills. Anyways, he has a 6 y/o SS, and the child isnt awful or mean, but everything the kid does irks me. As a quick backstory,
My BF has had problems with BM,
BM would completely ditch the son leaving BF as primary parent. BM would not call child, didn't care about child at all.
I think the child already has abondment issues. Reason being is that the kid just wants nothing but attention. The kid cannot go a single minute without begging for some kind of attention from BF or Myself. The problem is, I am introverted and can only tolerate so much from the SS. I try my best to fake it and give him as Much attention as I can. My SS is only 6 so I understand that they have high energy but I think he has ADHD. my SS will always roll Around on the floor, always interrupting conversations, always asking "who Will win" Questions and makes you follow him to watch I'm play.
My BF reminds me that if I need a break from my SS I can, but I know it hurts him that I don't love my SS. I can't even eat across Or next To my SS. he is only 6, and obese. He eats like a pig that's going to get his Food taken away from him. His BM is overweight and I know he is on the same Path as her.
everything he does Annoys me. I am Not an affectionate person, and my SS always wants to touch me. I get grossed out being next to him because he is always so Sweaty from Being hyper and has an odor, no matter how many showers he takes.
I have tried being a nice SM and took him On my family's vacation , but during the entire trip, he couldn't stop bringing up His BM, like why? My SS BM never has taken the kid on any vacation, or showed interest in him. What is the obsession?
Im at the point where I think I just resent SS and BM. I would love for BM to step up and be primary parent leaving us To only seeing SS on weekends. Am I a terrible Person?