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SSs TOTALLY confuse, disturb and dumbfound me..OH you must be SOOOOO proud!.....

stressedstep's picture

Yesterday, OHs new BFF....SS17....yup, you read right, the little sh*t that caused so much grief.......is now BFF with his daddio....well Christmas IS coming after all.....plus, apparently, SS17 gets his keys for his new apartment today!...so we know whats coming next hey.....well, he can f*ck right off...then I asked about SS19s flat.....So here's how the convo went:

OH "SS17 gets his keys tomorrow for his new apartment. Apparently its only X amount incl bills, but I told im, he only earns Y amount which only leaves him Z amount to live on......but apparently ExSS is moving in with him and paying half sooooo" (Im sooooo happy, no SS17 at mine EVER, plus DONT TALK HIM OUT OF IT MAN!)...

ME "Oh right, thats nice (cant stand the little b*stard anyway!)...I dont get why they dont just move into SS19s flat...everything is there, and there is more room and such"

OH "Oh, SS19 doesnt have the flat anymore. Cos he lost his job and couldnt find another one, he couldnt do his rent cos he wasnt getting benefit" (no he didnt, his hours got cut via contract and it helps if you actually LOOK for another one)

ME "Oh!...well whats happened to all that stuff, washing machines, fridge and freezer, beds drawers wardrobes, TV everything!?"

GET READY FOR THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OH "Well, nobody paid for it did they, it was given by everyone so it doesnt really matter does it"

OH MY F*CKING GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!...I totally dig your sons morals and lack of EVERYTHING but hell, at least I know where they get it from! lol....EVERYONE worked so hard to get all that stuff for SS19. WE all paid out petrol and gave time to furnish and deliver and help SS19 set up his first proper home....and for what?...NOTHING.....and apparently that doesnt matter....pffft......OH and MIL are all quick to blame BM, but you know what?....yes, about 60% IS BMs fault....but that other 40%...well thats OHs all on his own.....

Im waiting for the "me GFs not talking to me and Ive nowhere to stay dad...can I come to yours!?".....HELL F*CKING NO!!!!!!

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stressedstep's picture

Nothing!!! Its all been left behind.....SS19 probably moved a few of his clothes and thats that....and it happened a while ago too!!

SS17 could have had it all, but oh no....SS19 was an irresponsible a** as per usual!

stressedstep's picture

Serious!!....OH doesnt even feel there is anything wrong in it either! :jawdrop:

At least now I know why he didnt ask SS19 if he wanted SD7s old furniture before it was chucked out.....mind, I dont think he tells me much about the SSs anymore....think he has guessed Im not really all that interested in waste of spaces...

I just think its a total waste.....the Washing machine was MILs, and just under 6 months old!....but thats the SKids....they care for nothing but there own selfish needs.....

stressedstep's picture

Why do these kids feel that they are sooooo entitled?

What, so you mom and dad split, it means you are allowed anything and everything!?...well, hell, my mom and dad split, I STILL worked my a** off for what I have out of self pride!....My BD7 is in a split family...she doesnt behave like she is entitled either!!....

kathc's picture

Wow, just left it all behind then! I'd have half liked to hear the kid sold it all. Even pennies on the dollar at least he wouldn't be so stupid to leave it all behind!

Now let me guess, your DH will be buying things to help SS17 get set up because everything was given to SS19???

I hope at least it will come from goodwill and not a top line store!

stressedstep's picture

:jawdrop: :jawdrop: :jawdrop:

OMG I am so sorry about what you have been through!! Im not sure I could have coped with all that at all!! I cannot believe the SS duped you like that!!

SKids...just the worst kind of sh*t sometimes!