LMAO! Maybe I could take it before our judge & get the custody order changed. I mean, really...who can honestly argue that it's in the "best interest of the child" to leave them with The Mother of All Demons? I guess I shouldn't ask. I feel certain our judge will find a way to justify the order as it stands, & as a side-note, she'll have me doing time for hurting BM's feelings.

I check her page every now & then because she is the one who updates on what the skids are doing. DH has had no contact with them in over a year (aside from a 10 min phone call from SD13 on Father's Day). FB is the only way we are able to keep up with them & what they're doing. It's how we found out that SS16 broke his ribs, & in the last month it has given us a heads-up on BM's cancer & the fact that she is starting chemo in September.

I understand the take some people have regarding Facebook about their life in BM's home is not our business, but it really is the ONLY way we know ANYTHING about their lives at all.