Well we got moved in to our new place. It was a lot of work. I hate moving. Ss16 finally stepped up and helped very well on Sunday. Ss19 never did show up but another of dh's football kids showed up and helped with the heaviest lifting but then had to go back to work. A neighbor also helped out a lot. I was so beat by Sunday evening I just crashed. I had to work all of Monday but had the afternoon off today! Yesterday Dh ended up in the hospital with an almost stroke. He went in for a ctscan and they found a clot making it's way in his neck, so doc called him to come in asap. They got it under control with shots and now he takes meds for the rest of the chemo treatment time. Such a scare and it happened while at work and they wouldn't let me go b/c they couldn't find anyone to replace me. I was almost out of my mind by 7 last night and got DH home and to bed. He had to go back in today for more IV liquids and meds. He got very, very sick from the move. This alone makes me want to disown ss19 for life. He is a spoiled rotten brat who always talks big about how his parents deserted him with the divorce but he also has deserted family. Yes, I nearly worked myself into a heart attack too. Several times I collapsed and bs15 had to help me and tell me to take it easy and I burst into tears a few times. It was so hard. But it's done now and DH and I like this place so much we might stay for life here!