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I am so sad tonight. I have had a huge falling out with my younger sister via email. She told me this morning she thinks I should not get married b/c I have too much drama going on in my life ie, skids. I wrote back and told her that it was not appropriate for her to say that to me 5 days before my wedding. What person would say that to their sister anyways. She has not met SO and so she has no idea what he and I arelike together and sure her perspective is based on things I say via email but heck, I would never put doubt in a brides mind. As it is I am having a tough time b/c my parents have passed away recently and all of my family cannot come except my older sister.
She then wrote me back and said F%@& you Sterling, and she wants nothing more to do with me and my drama. She says I have abnormal amounts of drama and I'm tight lipped about important things but when it comes to skids I let it all hang out.
Anyhow I am just venting. I have 3 sisters and her and I have never been close. She grates on my nerves and has ever since she was 2 yrs old; now we are late 30s.
I'm just sad that she would be so immature to treat me like this on my special week of getting ready for the wedding. It has always had to be about her.
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It's far more appropriate for
It's far more appropriate for someone to say something before the wedding than after it.
I could totally see how that
I could totally see how that would be upsetting. I begged my sister not to marry her first husband. I begged her not to marry her second. I pray she doesn't consider marrying this one...yuck! but anyways before both of her weddings I stated my opinion...she did what she wanted.
Thx gals. I talked to my
Thx gals. I talked to my younger brother who is just older then that sister and he said she did the same to him too. She has a jealosy thing but of course when called out on it denies it and flips out. She's been a rather toxic individual in my life all along. If she weren't my sister I would have nothing at all to do with her. She's the big gaudy made up eyes, big hair, attention seeking loud mouth that I am sure a lot of you know about. Not my style but like My bro said, dont give her drama the attention b/c tho she is trying to make it her week, its really my week. I am the bride afterall, not her.
Right now I am sun tanning on
Right now I am sun tanning on my deck so my halter top wedding dress looks good against my back
I'm so excited!
Yes, don't let her get to
Yes, don't let her get to you. She sounds jealous to me!! Enjoy your wedding!!!
P.s. I wanted to beg my sis not to marry her DH, but now 20 yrs. later he is the best inlaw I have! She should trust your judgement.