Well it has been so nice around here other than on Saturday when oldest SD asked if BM could come over for visit before work. We said you could see her before work but it has to be outside of our house not in the house. Well SD made the comment "oh back to that Sh*t again are we." At that point I made DH have a talk with the 2 girls in private again to explain why its wrong for BM to come over and in our home anytime they want. So when we go to the therapist tomorrow it will be explained again in that meeting that it is inappropriate for BM to be coming over and in our home when ever they or she wants. Both girls are 16 and 17 and they don't want to accept that our home is off limits. I keep expecting a big blow out fight about it or to have BM knock on the door and force the issue. I hate it when you know a fight is brewing and you can feel it.