BM Intrusiveness....
well things are getting much better now that DH had the talk with BM and she is not coming over to our house any time she feels like it. I texted DH last night at work and said that the all the kids seem much calmer now and feels more like a home should feel. It was this way before when DH had the boundary talk with the BM and it only lasted about 2 weeks. This time its different as I am not backing down no matter what.
BM has depression and bipolar disorder that she has passed onto their oldest daughter and we have many therapy appts to deal with that. BM blames me for the daughter having issues. She can't deal with the fact she is the one who passed it to her. So ya things have been crazy around here for along time. I truly have no respect for the BM as a person but respect the fact that she is their mom and act civil when she is around the kids and us.
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Chances are she's going to
Chances are she's going to blame you for everything because you're the easy target. At least DH tries to put boundaries in place and it sounds like he will support you in this. She's probably never going to change & it's probably best for you to try and let it roll off of your back. Easier said than done, I know!
"There are two things over which you have complete dominion, authority, and control over - your mind and your mouth".
It's cool... I get blamed
It's cool... I get blamed for everything. She texts and calls with inappropriate crap all the time and she told DBf that its "all HER fault that we aren't friends anymore!" At first I got pissed off but now I'm just like meh... Poor dumb girl dosen't know BOUNDRIES!