SD9 trying to monopolize BS attention!
My SD9 loves babies especially her brother BS8mo. However anytime another family member is talking, holding, hugging, etc. baby, SD runs up and has to say "I want a hug brother" and hugs baby too or say "group hug" or "hi brother, here I am, here's sister!". Trying to get him to look at her. And it's constant... with my parents, brother, sister, DHs family, neices, nephews...anybody! My 2yo neice was trying to hug and kiss baby goodbye and SD ran up to stick her face right in the middle of what would have been a really cute moment.
SD is here on a 7/7 week on/off schedule so she sees him quite frequently. Certainly more than 1-2 times a month extended family sees him.
I have told her many times that other people enjoy the baby too and need to get their turn to visit with him. But it's just not sinking in. I don't want to cause any resentment between my baby and her, but I'm not sure what else to do. Some type of consequense? Feeling annoyed!