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Submitted by SMIT on Mon, 12/25/2006 - 9:01pm

Ugh... 9:00 on Christmas night and the ex- HAD TO call my husband. She needed him to explain something about hooking up her older son's new laptop to a printer. You're telling me there was no support line she could have called?! Oh, wait, apparently there was... and the number rang to my husband. Gosh, she bugs me sometimes. That was the third time she called him tonight.

When she dropped off our little boy on Friday, she sent our Christmas gift from him. The tag, which she wrote, was made out to "Ricky & Lucy" from "Little Ricky" (not our real names, obviously. Excuse me... what about "Daddy & Lucy"???

Little guy is sooooooooooo young. I have to deal with the annoying presence of this woman pretty constantly for at least the next several years. I keep hoping that once he hits about 12, or so, she won't have to meddle in every interaction that he and his daddy have on the phone. I understand he's too young now and she has to be involved, but I can't stand her chatting up my husband every chance she gets. The woman yammers nonstop.

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OldTimer's picture

Submitted by OldTimer on Tue, 12/26/2006 - 1:33am

It will get better. For now, just let it roll off your back.

I do have to say that I find it alittle strange that she is bring you a gift... when you could easily take SS shopping for Dad yourself, and VS... but then again, I don't know the circumstances.

I have to say, this year, just before we left to drop SS off to his BM's Christmas visit, he mentioned that his mother bought us gifts this year, two gifts for both of us. My DH and I just said, oh, that's nice or something like that, but just left it alone.

As soon as DH got home, he mentioned- just letting it roll off his tongue nonchalent like- BM forgot "the gifts", (you have to understand this is a first in 7 years of dealing with this women.) and went on to say "she could keep them because he absolutely wanted nothing from that punk a$$ witch. In less, of course, it's $450.00 per month." I was rolling in laughter. It was sooooo unexpected from him. No, we're not bitter... not us.

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Submitted by h6not3 on Tue, 12/26/2006 - 9:34am

wow...my husband should go into business with your husband and call it the "information ex hotline". BM calls my husband daily to ask the STUPIDEST questions. Actually, she used to call constantly, but through time he has stopped answering the calls if he has the kids. If she has the kids, he still answers.....and it's usually telling us something cute that they did, how to change the thermostat temp, how to turn the faucet off....ect. She's annoying. A computer? She wouldn't even know how to take it out of the box....hahaha..

Have a good day!

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Submitted by Lacey on Wed, 01/03/2007 - 10:01pm

I can relate to you.I am glad that things have improved on this subject for me.My BF ex use to call about stupid things.The one time that really pissed me off was when he was at work and she called him.He told me not to call him on his cell phone when I knew he was at work.On this day I happened to be at work with him when his cell phone rang.He has call display on his phone and obviously knew it was his ex...but he still answered it.She called to get his opinion on buying a new car..he sat on the phone with her for almost an hour discussing this.I was sitting in his off just fuming.What I didn't get and I questioned him on it was why wouldn't she just talk to her new fiance about what car to buy.Maybe I offer reacted but boy was I ever mad.I am happy to say that this doesn't happen all that often any more.

Lacey