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Slavegirl's picture

Submitted by Slavegirl on Mon, 10/17/2016 - 12:18am

my dh kicked sd 14 out to live with her friend a few months ago because she snuck out again and came back high. anywys she was back a week later. But she apparently called cps then and told them that my dh hit her and bruised her face. Dh didn't even yell at her that day and there was never a mark on her face. DH seemed mad at her when cps left but when he picked her up from school he was all nice to her and she continued to be her rude, mean self. I don't get why he puts up with all the crap she pulls and lies she tells and is still spoiling her right after she did such a low move to tell cps that he smacks her when all he does is spoil her. like what a back stabbing child. Its so frustrating. I could lose my kids because of her lies she makes up to get pity from other people. She so manipulative and mean. I take anxiety medicine to put up with her. Ive never known anyone to be as mean and manipulative as her. She is pure bitch but DH never repremands her. Drives me nuts.

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Acratopotes's picture

Submitted by Acratopotes on Mon, 10/17/2016 - 4:53am

SD is not the issue here lady - your DH is the issue, he allows her to get away with stunts like these.

If I where in your shoes, I would move out with my children and distance myself from this, I'm not saying divorce, simply tell DH, I'm not going to jeopardize my kids and my life with your daughter's antics, you can not stand up to her and I'm not going to tell you to choose.... but I am going to make sure my kids are safe and well.... you can visit any time you want, but your daughter is not welcome in my house any more... then move out..

Oh if DH moved in with you, give him 30 days notice to move out with SD,

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Submitted by Disneyfan on Mon, 10/17/2016 - 6:36am

Your husband sounds like an awful parent. Instead of dealing with his 14 year old'son behavior, he kicked her out of the house.

Both of them sound clueless about how to handle situationsome. The kid has learned from him that extreme/ridiculous reactions are acceptable.

Why are you keeping your children are these two?

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Submitted by Willow2010 on Mon, 10/17/2016 - 7:23am

Seriously, kicking a kid out for sneaking out was your DH's solution? What a crappy thing to do, and his actions are just as erratic as hers! It sounds like he goes from no punishment to last-resort punishment in the blink of an eye. No wonder this girl is the way she is!
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This...and I have the same question as Disney....why keep your children around this?

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Submitted by Maxwell09 on Mon, 10/17/2016 - 9:02am

Wow! Uhm no he shouldn't hit her! He's an adult and her parent even if he is a sucky one.

OP I would suggest your DH take a parenting class or get into counseling with skid so they can learn how to deal with each other correctly. The solution to bad teenage behavior (that's pretty normal for her age) shouldn't be to kick her out. "Out of Sight, Out of mind" is probably how his daughter started smoking weed in the first place.

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Submitted by Disneyfan on Tue, 10/18/2016 - 10:01pm

The more you post, the more I think some people should never be allowed to have or be around children.

Thumper's picture

Submitted by Thumper on Mon, 10/17/2016 - 12:05pm

Yep you can loose your kids especially when your ex becomes chimed in to what is going on in your house. Then HE will have custody and he has every right to protect his kids from this.

GOOD LUCK crew