Fiancee and I talked over FSS little shenanigans he's been pulling. I have totally absolved myself of ANY responsibility of his child. I told him from now on when his son is over here he is FULLY responsible for him and I will have nothing to do with him. That way if CPS ever does show up they'll realize that I'm not doing anything wrong. I was also advised to document EVERYTHING FSS does while he's here. That way I'm covering my butt in a way. When he comes for his next visit, fiancee is going to set him on the couch and he's going to sit here and do absolutely nothing the first night he's here. He's going to sit and look at walls. And since he talks alot of crap to BM about my daughter and how BM thinks my daughter is to blame for FSS's shortcomings he isn't allowed to play with her anymore. I've literally had it, I'm honestly ready to pack up and leave. I don't need this crap, and I feel totally sick that I have to do all this shit in my OWN home! Just so I can protect myself from CPS and some little kid that likes to lie not only about me and my daughter but about kids at school! He's been lying about kids beating up on him at school! ugh....and hasn't ever been made to be held accountable for his behaviors...if my daughter did this crap...oh god, the wrath of god would fall down on her...I look at her and everything she's been through and I think to myself how lucky I am that MY own child has turned out so great...and yeah she still has her shortcomings, the ADHD and ODD, but she's gotten so much better the last couple months it's unbelievable...I'm glad she's mine and FSS isn't! BM and Fiancee can HAVE ALL OF HIM...if things don't change I'm moving out in the next couple months..I won't deal with this for love anymore, I'm not risking losing my child for love...