I really hope she gives in....
Fiancee's attorney wrote BM's attorney and basically said
"Fiancee is adamant about claiming SS on 2007 taxes as SS was in his care a majority of the time durig 2007. In addition, he paid child support to your client based on a 50/50 arrangement notwithstanding your client did not have SS in her care 50% of the time. In addition the parties agreed the child support was to be given back to fiancee to care for SS and they were not. Therefore fiancee expended much more money towards the care of SS during 2007 and should be allowed the deduction accordingly. Your client did not contribute much financially to the care of SS and should not be allowed the deduction. Fiancee has been more than reasonable and has given in on quite a bit already in hopes of settling these matters out of court. He has reluctantly allowed your client to have physical custody of SS. Howeever, if your client is not willing to agree to him claiming SS for his taxes this year and every even year, we're willing to take this to court."
I just basically summarized the letter cause I'm crappy at giving details...I hope she gives in and gives him ONE thing that he deserves for once...just thought I'd update you guys