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Thanks BM, you do such a great job with the kids.

SisterNeko's picture

BM dropped Skids off last night as usual - they were over tired, dirty, whiny, sick, cranky, as usual.

we gave them both a bath - now I have to clean my tub because there is a icky dirt film covering it. SS7 said he hadn't bathed since Thursday! I know that it is sort of my fault because I put bubbles in the bath tub to make the kids smell nice Smile The bubbles mixed with the dirt, dead skin, soap, sweat and grease to leave behind this nasty brown film. So now I have to scrub the tub.

And they both have colds but haven't been taking cold meds according to SS7.

SS7 was also all broke out (ezama) and both kids had bug bites (it's fall there shouldn't be bugs!)

I Hate Sundays!

DH even admitted that by Friday we will have them pretty much sorted out, in time to go back with BM - EOW 50/50 custody. He would love to see what would happen if BM had the boys for longer than a week and we had them for longer than a week? BM would ever go for it but the results would be interesting since we never really get to enjoy our hard work on getting the back in shape.

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needinginwardpeace's picture

BM did this ALL THE TIME, meaning EVERY TIME when the skids were younger. It's like, what kind of rock hit you in the head making you such a parenting gimp? Now that they are older they can bathe, dress & feed themselves - and many times remember their own meds. But she still waits 2 weeks to take them to the doctor if something arises. Maybe her imaginary world deity will heal them magically with creative energy. NOT. Thank god she's hit menopause & can't procreate anymore.

SisterNeko's picture

Nice. I have been working with SS7 on being more proactive. When he comes over all broke out and starts blame BM for not putting lotion on him I ask him - did you ask her too, you have to tell her if you are itchy. And I told him once that he needed to shower because he smelled - and no one wants to hang out with smelly people. Maybe a little rash but very true. I am honest like that, I have a very good nose I guess and I have started gagging around him before, because it just hits you. We all better watch out if I ever get pregnant.