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We have finallly made it to the same page

sheltojl's picture

I am very happy my boyfriend and I are finally seeing things eye to eye and on the same page with what the real problems are in our household. This revelation came to their dad over the Christmas holiday, something I have been seeing for months.

Of course one of the biggest problems is the girls' mom... but the other problem are the girls telling their mom and her side of the family so many lies. It's so horrible to live with us.. their dad threatens to beat the crap out of them... I was recorded calling them disgusting.. they don't want to live with their father anymore.

It's really so horrible when we "both" provide food, shelter, clothing, protection, and love for them... it's so horrible. We "both" support their activities: concerts, school events, gymnastics, softball, and other things they want to do.

The biggest sign of the girls' being ungrateful was Christmas night, we spend the evening with my boyfriends family and the whole time we were there they were whining about going swimming with their mom at a place they have been so many times. Their grandpa was so furious that they didn't give two shits about spending time with family that he doesn't even want to speak with them... they were just ungrateful. Later that night when they were with their mother.. she bailed out of state to avoid being arrested by the police for a warrant that is out for her.. and the reason why she left her children with their fathers instead of owning up to what she did.

To be honest I am proud of my boyfriend to finally step and tell the girl what is expected and the truth of their mother who they think is a goddess.. in reality she is a loser who cannot hold a job, and alcoholic, a criminal, and a heartless bitch.

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sheltojl's picture

the girls knew that she was in trouble.. but BM tells them it isn't sa bad as it is and her lawyer was out of town so she didn't stay... they still think her shit don't stink and didn't seem phased towards her about running back to California.. on the flip side it seem we felt the repercussion from her bailing.. by talking shit about us and all that jazz