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sharlyns's picture

Thanks to you all for your support.  I cried myself to sleep. I'm trying to get up this morning but I don't know if.i can..I'm hurt and feel alone sitting here but I'm going to try my best to get through this day...thanks for the love!!


sharlyns's picture

I took the advice and went to visit a friend today! Felt good just a long drive. Loved the fresh air. I ignored the dirty house the lazy guys on the couch the pile of dirty laundry and didn't even cook! Hmmmm....well see what will happen tomorrow when I do the same.  But my room is clean I have snacks my favorite pjs and Mask with Cher! First time ever!!!!! I admit I a little annoyed at the wreck of a house but imma let them figure it out!!! Thanks everyone! Really thanks!

Steptotheright's picture

We're here for you darlin. Go fight the good fight until you figure out a different fight to fight.

You need to get out more I saw on your last blog post that that really helped. talk to other people and build yourself a network outside of this toxic environment you've become entangled in. And don't look to your man or your SS for validation.. they won't give it. Bless.

sharlyns's picture

Thanks! I did just that today! Scrounged up some change borrowed a car and went to see my friend! I did it! And I don't feel guilty! Upset the house is dirty stinks and piles of dishes...hmmmni didn't cook! I came home checked the blog grabbed some treats a movie and chilling with my dog! First time I felt free! They stunned door is locked and I'm in my happy place! Thanks! 

StepUltimate's picture

Thanks for the update. So glad you're taking suggestions, taking positive action, and enjoying the benefits! You are worth it.