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Sticking to my guns!

sharlyns's picture

I'm hanging in there! Its been good so far. Had the SO send SS to his bio mom! Disengaging this time was different. Hard and I admit scared at first but....I'm finding myself again writing and doing my artwork! 

The SS tried to rattle my efforts but I turned a blind eye. He now stays away from me. Drives my SO nuts! He said I care!..funny I laughed and said "I did my best, I'm not his mother, his maid or doormat anymore.  I'm Your girlfriend!" He has a mother. She may suck at it. But thats your child! Mine is grown!" Wow....he didn't react just walked into the other room.  I paid my half of the Bill's and I'm good!

Thanks everyone! You made me stronger! Imma do my best to keep looking forward!

PS

I'm enjoying SS being away for 3 days! And I sleeping Great!

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StepUltimate's picture

Good job! Thanks for the update.

Harry's picture

That why he wants you to entangled him.  Disengage gets easier as time goes on.  Just remember, just because you are disengage from SS he can not disrespect you.  You say hi and by.  Good morning and good night. As you respect him. As your BF child.   And he respects you as a adult. 

sharlyns's picture

girl! HARRY I'm not an Asshole...lol...I was raised with Morals and Faith! I do cook,clean, and yes acknowledge him..its up to him to figure it out! 

If you lived here you would know how it feels!

My SO...he has to grow up and respect my child as well. Boundaries were created this time! 

I deserve more and with my health issues I think I'm doing great!