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sharlyns's picture

Ok peeps! Tell me if I'm wrong! I was babysitting my 3yr old granddaughter who well is the apple of my eye! She super smart, talks, potty trained,and independent!

I asked her to pick up her toys of which I couldn't see the floor. You know kids cry but if left alone will put it away??? Right?? I know her. I've taken care of her lots!

I don't baby kids, I teach them how to have manners.

Long story short, DH yells at me! Started saying mean things which the fool is sitting on the toilet hiding from playing with her. He ket her empty out ALL THE TOYS! then gets upset with me asking her to put them away! Which she did without an problems he had the problem!

Skid us at his mom's! Yay! Been staying away from him keeping with disengaging! I'm doing Awesome getting work done looking feeling better! Everything is good with me. We been doing good. Then all of a sudden this shit!

I'm trying not to let it get to me....but it hurts my mommy heart when they don't believe in me!

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sharlyns's picture

Thanks! I'm happy you agree!

Monkeysee's picture

Disney grandaddee can pick them up himself then. 3 is old enough to start helping but if he thinks that’s mean then let him do the work. Don’t you dare lift a finger! Keep enjoying your granddaughter Smile

sharlyns's picture

Oh, thanks! I'm glad you understand!

thinkthrice's picture

Sounds like he has learned nothing at the outcome of HIS shitty parenting.  But wait...maybe he HAS.  He's angry that your parenting with rules and guidance WORKS!

And he wants to turn GD into a brat by inflicting the same non parenting as he did with his brat.

Trying to cause division between you and GD, make you look like an ogre due to your parenting clearly being a winner which is showing him up.

sharlyns's picture

Never thought of that..thanks will remember this 

tog redux's picture

Is this a step-granddaughter? If so, it's just the same dyamic as with skids - he feels he has the right to decide how they are dealt with.  Personally, I'd suggest you don't get to close to her, emotionally, in the event her parents cut her off from you, or you divorce.

If it's a real granddaughter, tell him to pound sand.

sharlyns's picture

No she my granddaughter from my only daughter.  Oh today he felt like an ass.

sharlyns's picture

No she my granddaughter from my only daughter.  Oh today he felt like an ass.