I'm done
Well peeps..the high only lasted a few days..Disengaging has helped some. It sucks to watch the lil jerk get away with so much! And he loves it! I can't even stand to look at him..hearing his voice is even worse.
His stench is crossing the hallway...our guests are grossed out..yet nothing changes
I need money for my phone to do my business and my jerk boyfriend won't help! What hurts is he put minutes on the lil shits phone????All my money goes to the Bill's! Stuff for the house tissue, detergent etc. Shit I can't even get a decent bra!!! I wash my hair with body soap...
What am I thinking???sometime I just wanna die. What happened to me? Why am I treated this way?? It was great in the beginning we are good when he's gone..why can't he just go back to his mom!!!
I tried peeps! I did!! I'm using wifi at the library so if I don't respond???? Its whenever I make money!
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Why isn't your BF helping you
Why isn't your BF helping you with bills. Is he unemployed?
Yeah, I'm confused, what is
Yeah, I'm confused, what is going on here with the money? Why is he not contributing?
Not helping
He has health issues! And I'm better at what I can do!!!lol...I know I should consider flying the coop...
We need more details on the
We need more details on the finances. How do you divide bills? Can you get a 2nd job so that you can afford to leave or kick him out?
Is your home in your name or his? Do you have any family or friends that can help you for a month or 2 to get on your feet and moved into another house/apartment/find a new roommate?
Not helping
Sounds easy right???? I live in a very rural economically depressed area..jobs are fewer than good BMs.lol..my name is jointly on the house! I have alot invested. I lost it all my first marriage! Do I really want to lose it all now?
Why do you stay? NO "partner"
Why do you stay? NO "partner" is worth this misery.
Not helping
I ask myself that many times...we good when the skids not around and we have a business together. But I lost it all my first marriage. Guess PTSD!
Stop buying
Stop buying stuff for the house until you have purchased what you need for yourself. You buy tissues for general use when you need shampoo and a bra?? Come on, girl. Unless he has a gun to your head, cash your paycheck and buy the necessities of life. If things are so bad that he is frightening you into turning your money over to him, that is what family, friends, and shelters are for. You sound like you are describing a pimp more than a SO. Is that what you want for yourself??
YES!!!!! More of a pimp than
YES!!!!! More of a pimp than a SO for sure!!
Pimp..
Hey now...I take offense to be considered a whore. Jot cool words. But in my defense PTSD US A BITCH! I've lived a pretty shitty life. Just finding myself again, be my friend not my enemy!