Help -I wish my daughter didn't look like SD
I'm going to share a secret that I can't tell anyone else and I'm afraid to ask anywhere else.
So once in a while I get this weird wave of negative feelings when my daughter makes a face and resembles SD12. I know she doesn't resemble SD, she actually resembles my husband, whom I love, but maybe it's the fact that they are both girls that does it? In that moment to me she looks more like SD than like my husband.
If she looks even the slightest bit like SD in a picture I delete it. I feel bad because I love my daughter but these random moments remind me of SD and I hate it.
My toddler looks more like me (well my dad actually!) most of the time. I'm about to have my second and I'm worried she is going to look more like my husband and therefore give me the icky SD feeling.
Has anyone else felt like this? I hate this feeling.