prodical FSS returns

aaaahh, it is 7:15 Sunday evening and we are getting FH's 16y/o and 13y/o biokids ready to go home. LO' and behold, 19 y/o soon to be ex con bioson texts 13y/o and asks him FH will give him a ride with the others. NOW we have not heard word one from this kid since he dropped over for a ride a few weeks ago, so he is in town and can not come over to apologize for his christmas misbehavior nor apologize for calling his dad a bitch, but oh he can text his younger brother to ask daddy-o to give him a lift. I did not even wait for FH to say anything I blurted out NO...he is not going to call(so to speak) at the last minute to ask a favor when he doesnt have the decency to treat us better. so 13 y/o trotted off to go text brother back
I tried to talk to FH about it after we dropped off the kids told him I thought it was pretty ballsy of FSS to do that. he did not say anything to me. I think I may have jumped the gun and said no, but I couldnt help myself. I am just TIRED of this boy treating his dad like a tool. maybe I should have let FH speak but I was afraid he would have said ok. then that would have sent me straight over the edge-- i probably would have locked FH out of the house...
the nerve of this kid is just amazing.
oh yeah that is right he was raised entitled-- silly me.

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So did FH ever say

what his response WOULD have been to his son? (just curious)

I so agree with you that this took a lot of nerve on FSS' part to not only NOT have the courtesy to call his father and ask for a ride directly, but to just TEXT his brother and have them ask him for him? He's a man acting like a child!

I agree SarahB, I would have done the same thing- answered first BEFORE FH had the chance to put his foot in his mouth and say something that would get him into a whole mess of trouble. After all, FH doesn't have the best track record...

"Of course things worked out nicely for Carol Brady...she had a live-in maid and Mike's first wife was DEAD!"

I agree, I would

have answered like that myself. I think that left to their own devices, most of our DH's likely would have jumped at the chance to help these goofy kids out...even though they don't deserve it!

amen sista'

No he never did say to me what his response would have been, I tried to broach the subject after we dropped off the other two but I could tell he was in no mood to talk, so do you think I should ask him what he would have done or should I let sleeping dogs lie?
so of course being who I am I started feeling guilty however NOT guilty enough to apologize to FH.
I am sure he would have caved in to FSS.

"Better a diamond with a flaw than a pebble without one."

THANKS

it is nice to know that I was not totally off base with jumping in like that.
Now I wish I could get some response from FH and his feelings on it.