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sarahbernheart's picture

well I have to report that the honeymoon phase of FSS moving in has ended.
it was a nice 10 days, however brief they were
a little background, FSS (who just moved in with me and BF)has a girlfriend who is very needy and very selfish very controlling well she went on vacation with her mom- guess for how long...
you guessed it 10 days!! I am figuring FSS was bored and wanted to keep the peace so he maintained an appearance of normality until girlfriend came home.
He has not done anything horrible just not doing anything.for example I have a chart that lists chores for each day of the week for each person that lives at home, nothing huge, vacuuming, sweeping, cleaning. these kids are 18 & 19 (my son) -
so FSS skips his chore on Thursday, (vacuuming) skips his chore on Saturday (dishes). why?? cuz his girlfriend needed him and he had to get over to her right away, cuz 20 minutes is way too long to wait for him to vacuum BEFORE he needs to leave--ok
so FSS walks home from sleeping wherever and decides to do the dishes (skipped the vacuuming mind you)then proceeds to wash his clothes...takes a shower and leaves.fine
if he can not keep up his end of the deal (he is not working so he cant pay rent he isnt going to school) ya know what- then you dont get to use the shower and you dont get to use the washer and dryer...

FH and I talk and I am not too over the top cuz I am thinking that FSS will wake up and FH is so disappointed that BS has gone to the dark side yet again. however that is not to say I plan on letting loverboy get away with it.
FH seems to know the score so I will let him handle it FIRST ..if he slacks then Mamma Bear will take it on, cuz I will not let his son slack and then try to expect my son to tow the line.
so thanks for reading I just wanted to get that out it has been bothering me for the last couple of days.
now where is that frying pan...