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BM little miss perfect ... can anyone relate?

RakulTheMama's picture

So I'm pretty new on here, but I've experienced enough and read enough to know I'm not alone in the terror that is step parenting. Now, one thing that's driving me nuts is that. DH has no rights... everything goes to BM because she's the poor single mother. Oh woe is her... she gets a ton of our money every month and feeds terrible ideas about us to ss. Aaahhhhh does it ever get less frustrating? Does anyone ever realize that shes not always the best person just because she's the mother??? Sad

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RakulTheMama's picture

The system is so messed up. Good dads get screwed and heaven help their supportive wives. Sad

fedup13's picture

DH's ex is a true terror. She is nuts. She is a closeted lesbian that lives a secret life because she cannot openly be who she is for fear of her family disowning her. So, she hides behind fake marriages and fake relationships, keeps a husband or boyfriend to make the outside world think she is straight, all the while carrying on with her girlfriends on the side on the down low. She is a bitter, miserable, and very unhappy person and does not want anyone else to be happy either. She has put us thru absolute Hell, and you know what, no matter what this bitch does, she still manages to come out unscathed. I cannot go into details due to wanting to remain anonymous, but karma is about to bitch slap her right upside her ugly head. I do believe the tables are turning on her because she has finally messed up one too many times. She is finally getting a taste of her own medicine. So, sometimes, if you give them enough rope, they will hang themselves, but I don't think it works out like that often. They usually just keep up with their reign of terror and never get what is coming. She will continue to attempt to terrorize DH for the next 13 years, but, I think the court system and CPS are finally seeing thru her poor pitiful me routine.

RakulTheMama's picture

That sounds terrible, and I totally feel your pain! I hope your bm (should mean bi**h monster or something) gets what she has coming. DHs ex is awful too, and I'm fully convinced she just used him to have a baby. WTF is wrong with people???

fedup13's picture

I KNOW skid mark's mom used DH to have a baby. They were not even dating, had not seen each other in two months, had a drunken night, and two months later she called and said she was pregnant. DH's dumbass, first of all, put himself in the position to get blamed by not using protection, and then, he married her without demanding a paternity test. I have major doubts as to skid's true paternity. They were not married long at all, he stuck around after skid was born for about six months maybe, and then bailed because he knew he had been duped. She thought that if she could have a husband and a family she would be perceived as straight, a total cover is all it was. That and she thought she could make herself be straight, sorry, but that is not how it works. She is now doing the same thing to another man. It should be a crime to do that to someone, whether it be a BM like skids or a BM like your SS's.