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Queencow's picture

So you have taught you child(ren) to hate their other parent (let's call it dad). Congratulations!

Let's have a Brief moment to ponder the wonderful life you have created for them.

Did you know...you child is now more likely to have a mental illness, be a drop out AND be a criminal. Course he was already in trouble given the parent "solely" responsible for raising him herself has a mental illness, but hey now that you have completely removed NORMAL from his life what else would you expect. Let's not forget that at the tender age of 13, grade 7 he's been suspended 3 times from school for bullying (since you and he live three hours away that's entirely your problem) - I'd say he's already setting up for failure!

And speaking of balance, good thin he has a stable FATHER in his life to show him how to be a man and perhaps father someday. Wait, you say you can teach him!? Is this a lesson in do what I say and not what I do here (doing as in showing how men have zero importance in their children's lives). Wow, I would be willing to bet that doesn't turn out so good either.

And speaking of fatherhood, good thing he's likely to choose a woman like his mother. You know a manipulative whore whose only accomplishment in life has been to leach and suck off anyone pathetic enough to stick around...sounds like an excellent way for him to live! Course his wife will have to compete with mommy dearest - that will be a treat to watch!

And last but certainly not least let's not forget that the behaviors and lessons you are *ahem* enabling and teaching him - you know "stand up for your rights" and "you should be allowed to do what you want" well, my dear, here's a little surprising news - he's going to treat EVERYONE that way... And wanna know who else is in that group...that's right mommy dearest. Except, there will be no way to he away from it or interact it because it will be too late. I believe they call that "reaping what you sow". You think it's great he's telling dad to fuck off - wait until dads gone and you get to be the lucky recipient! Oh you think your precious BABEEEEE will never turn on you...HA, ok then.

And finally, if you are lucky and make it past the teen years my guess is this - he'll one day figure out the bitch you are and will HATE YOU for turning him against his father. Granted I will admit there's only a small chance of that, but hey remember one thing- child support eventually ends, parenting a psycho won't.

So again I raise my glass and tip it - to you MOTY. Congratulations and, well Good Luck! Cause you will need it. And don't bother coming running back to dad...see the best revenge is a life well lived and we plan to make it happen tenfold with or without the child in our life!

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bearcub25's picture

That's the problem with BMs with mental illness, they can't think into the future.

Yours is like mine. Constantly bashing on the skids they should hate ME, don't have to listen to ME. SD cusses BM like a dog and BM calls DSO and whines...BM constantly cusses DSO and I like a dog...and wonders how they can be so mean to her. Well stupid, you taught them to have no respect and that they didn't have to learn manners and morals.

Mercury's picture

I love this. I would like to copy it word for word and send it to DH's ex. Blum 3

On a serious note, I can personally relate to this:

"he'll one day figure out the bitch you are and will HATE YOU for turning him against his father. Granted I will admit there's only a small chance of that"

If the chances of that happening are slim like you say, then I feel very lucky that I was actually able to figure out that my mom alienated me from my dad. Granted, it didn't click until I was in my mid-twenties, but it clicked. Then I hated her for many years. Funny how that works.