Are you kidding me
So on Sunday DH has to take SS10 to get sneakers I stayed home and let them have father and son time alone. They were gone about an hour and a half and I just relaxed.
Their custody agreement clearly states that pick up and drop is at 4pm but it never is. As of 3:00 DH still hadn't heard from BM. I said have you tried to text her and he said yes I haven't heard back yet. Well he should be leaving at 3, it's an hour drive to the exchange point. I would like to plan dinner for us but cannot since drop off is up in the air. Sundays I have always tried to make a nice family dinner, SS enjoys it and I know he doesn't get that with BM, they eat a lot of fast food. But at this point we will have something quick.
At 5pm I said ANYTHING yet ? he said no. I said this is f***ing rediculous, he said what do you want me to do. I want you to do this, Call this B**** and tell her that everytime she is late in picking up and dropping off she is in CONTEMPT. You have an order that you both agreed to, tell her that at this point she can either drive to our home to get him or he will stay an extra day, But do something other than waiting for this inconsiderate B**** to tell you what works best for her. About 30 minutes later she calls to say that she is going to be about another 2 hours that her and her BF are going to look at a house. This was the first time that I heard DH loose it with her. he said 8:00 doesn't work with me, I want to watch the football game on TV and I have been putting off eating dinner he told her about being in contempt and that he would be going to her county court house in the am to file if she wasn't on her way to pick up 15 minutes. He said it's pitch black out no real etsate agent is going to show you a house in the dark. She called him back 5 minutes later and said she was on her way.
I didn't go with him, he was upset with me that I didn't but I tol him that I was getting too stressed out with all of this and it really wasn't my problem. I said I was happy that he finally said something to her other than "ok". I said that if he had listened to me weeks ago he wouldn't be walking around ballless on the weekends waiting for his ex to decide something that should already be a given. I told him that going forward their should be NO waiting for HER to give him the time that works for her, On Friday he should text her first thing and say see you at 4 same thing on Sunday. She is unemployed so it isn't like she has to be anywhere but this is what the agreed to and they need to make it work.