The weekend part 3: Ss16 needs a boot up his butt!
So sunday (yesterday) when the boys get ready to leave ss16 tells dh that he needs to give him some gas money so dh goes to get some money for him. I was LIVID! We get into a fight about it b/c after his behavior he doesn't deserve anything let alone being able to drive and he has a JOB! Dh gives him money anyway.
Dh goes out to give it to him but all he had was a $20 so he asked ss16 to give him $12 bucks back, ss16 said so you aren't going to give $20? Dh says no, ss16 says so what my time driving here to see his is not worth $20! :jawdrop:
Dh ripped him a new one again! He was PISSED but he still didn't take anything away! I don't get it! Dh says he can't do anyting about what happens at yuck but he sure can while he is here so why didn;t he? I don;t know but maybe it was b/c they were leaving and already packed I don;t know. But what I do know is that ss16 is way too big for his pants and needs to be knocked down quite a few notches!
So then dh calls yuck and they get into a fight again b/c she refuses to punish ss16 for what he did fri night and sat. So dh told her that if she calls him to involve him he gets a say in what happens and he wants ss16 car parked! He is their dad and he gets say in punishments especially if she calls him to involve him. If she doens;t want dh to have a say then don't call him to involve him this is getting out of hand and ss16 needs punished!
Yuck said she will punish him but refuses to say what it is. She hangs up. I told dh that means she has nothing and will do nothing! But she some how wants dh to magically make ss16 mind without punishing him! :? :?