ungrateful little shits

This took me a few days to post b/c ive been so busy.....monday when dh got home the boys wanted to home as soon as the fun was over and no more money was being spent they were gone. Then top top it all off ss16 tried to tell dh that he didn't spend any time with them ans was up her butt the whole time at disney. I lost it at that point as i was trying to stay out of it and dh was doing a good job. But i couldn't sit there through that one. I looked at him and said you CHOOSE to stay in bed and not get up and go with us just like the other 2 did too. You CHOOSE to go back to the hotel or you CHOOSE to go to other places without your dad this is not his fault it is yours by CHOOSING to not be with him after he got you up or asked you to do things with him.

Then dh decided they will go home and he wont ever take them with us again he was and is very hurt. Then ss12 after all the griping to go home asked if would stop and get him a freaking game! WTF really. Dh told him his mom can then ss12 said mom wont since ist is rated M. Dh told him tough.

Dh is hurt that they did that I mean the whole time we were there it was im bored or something then they wanted more money on top of what we gave them so they could save that money and we were expected to buy anything they wanted there. I told them that was the point of the money we gave them and if they wanted to save it fine but i wasnt spending any more on them so if they want something they can buy it as i am not.

Then when we dropped them off yuck was sooooo mad at them for wanting to come home early and told them the least they could do was stay til the visit was over considering how much money was spent and the time and effort. Now i realy don't know what to make of that?

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sounds like Yuck had plans..

That's what I was thinking.

Yea i was thinking the same

Yea i was thinking the same thing but one of ss16 excuses to g o home was he wanted to get some rest. Whatever the f**k that means? Dh is very adamant about not having them over til they call and apologize and let him know they really want to have a relationship with him and not be here just to get money or stuff from him. He said he seen it with his sister and her oldest and refuse to buy his kids love. Go dh.

For the sake of you, your

For the sake of you, your marriage, and your SANITY I HOPE THEY NEVER APOLOGIZE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! }:)

Yep i already told dh I

Yep i already told dh I refuse to spend any of my money on them. Plus my kids are adults now so that means most of the time it will just be the 2 of us.

The exact thing happened to

The exact thing happened to us recently. We went on vacation with SS and my adult children. If SS did not get to do everything that he wanted to do, when he wanted to do it he was frustrated or BORED. We got up early and started doing our thing and SS would get up around noon - 2pm when everyone was ready for showers and rest/nap time. Then he got mad because we were sitting around the hotel in the hottest part of the day resting.

We were on a family vacation why does SS16 think that it should have been all about him? And DH felt sorry when he was acting up when SS thought I wasn't looking and said "well, he is just bored". REALLY...