I think I might have to do this in stages.

I have been a step mom for almost 7 years now to 3 boys, I have 2 bio kids dd17 and ds16. During the course of the last 7 years the bm has been the worst person I have ever met! She has tried to get my ds arrested for stealing her mom's cell phone, for battery against her son that is almost as twice as big as my ds and for molestation. NONE of which ever went any further that her just talking to the police and resulted in them telling her that IF she reported another false report she would he arrested herself! She has called DHS on me stating that I don;t feed her kids only and that I let my ds beat up on her ss14. That resulted in the dhs worker telling me that she can't tell me who called but she can be sapeaned (sp). She also took us to court saying that she has pictures of us having sex in front of the kids. First i would like to know HOW she got those pictures? Second it never happened geez. That resulted in the judge asking for the pictures and her lawyer said she needed a recess to get them, he said um no that is the ONLY reason we are here if you don;t have them this is dismissed, her lawyer again said she needed a recess to get them. The judge said dismissed. Now we didn't have to be there so neither bm nor dh were there. Dh's lawyer called him and told him that he won. No sooner than he got of the phone did bm call and say she won and he is no longer allowed to see the kids and he has to pay all kinds of crap that she tried to get which is way more than he made.

Noe for some reason she seems to LOVE my dd way more than I like. After all the crap she tried to do to my ds she called and wanted to know if she could take dd to a concert out of state not once but twice!!! um NO!!!! DUH!

This gives a little insight to my bm. Of course this is just the tip of the things she has done. Maybe more to come b.c I can't fit 7 years in one post LOL