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This is something a lot of divorce parents need to remember

purpledaisies's picture

PROMISE TO MY KIDS: I will stalk you, freak out on you, lecture you, drive you crazy, be your worst nightmare, embarrass you in front of your friends, hunt you down like a bloodhound because I LOVE YOU! When you understand that, I will know you are a responsible adult. You will NEVER find someone who loves you, cares about you, & worries about you more than your PARENTS

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SteppingUp's picture

Agreed!

I think so often though in stepfamilies that there is one household that enacts this "promise" (thus becoming the bad guys) and the other household that is more lenient so that they are the "favorite" parent. I see it alot on here and am afraid this will happen with my skids.

on the fence's picture

Purpledaisies, that is beautiful.

That is what a caring parent does.

That is what keep us accountable and makes us into human adults.

I love it.

purpledaisies's picture

I am so glad that this had made that much of an impact on someone. WOW thanks for telling me that. Smile

Last-Wife's picture

I had to stop everything. I hope you don't mind, but I copied it and put it as my Facebook post... It SO sums up the discussion I had with DH about SD last night...

purpledaisies's picture

lastwife funny that you should say facebook b/c that is where I got it! LOL

Last-Wife's picture

And then we can put the "parent curse" on them- I hope you have kids just like you some day!