skids dont want to come for summer visit.

First i want to say good for me im happy b/c i like it being just dh and me. But any way im sad for dh b/c they were being nasty little shits to him last time there were here and wanted to go home as soon as dh stopped spending money and having fun.

But at the same time why are they allowed to choose if they are coming or not. It just makes me so mad but im not going to say anything b/c its just better on me when they arent here.

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sd12 is coming to stay all

sd12 is coming to stay all next week. She doesn't want to come for the week. Apparently bm told my bf yesterday that sd12 is upset that she'll have to eat food that she doesn't like.
And that she won't have any friends to hang out with. BM was doing my bf a favor by trying to really pump up sd12 into coming. I'm sure my bf was soooo happy that he has her helping him out.
When they were on the phone yesterday, I wanted to vomit. He was so kissing their asses. It was disgusting.

I'm thinking if I did that kinda thing with my kids, he'd throw a fit.

I can't wait til he finds out I'm paying my daughter's rent this month!!! Yay! At least it's not some stupid $1000 dance camp like they paid for spoiled little "pretending" to be rich princess!!

Sorry, I get so ugly bc I'm just so disgusted and this is the only place I can let it out!!!

I understand about letting the kids choose. When did that become the norm? Since when does a freaking 12 year old get to tell me what to eat or what to do?? Much less deciding when they come and go. I hate the way this happens!

We had this problem last

We had this problem last summer, my SS wanted to go to a camp that conflicted with our summer visit. We gave him the choice to come out with us or go to camp, he chose camp but then he got in trouble and camp was taken away, he went to his uncle's farm to work for the summer instead.

This year, he came out to see us, apparently its good to get away from BM. LOL I have an SD10 & SS11, it costs us a fortune (plane tickets) to get them to us, if they chose to not come that is their call. My SD10 came out last year and it was good for her to just have it be DH, me and her. She has other sibilings at BM's house so she enjoyed the only child time with us. Last summer was the 1st time it happened. I'm sure as they get into the teen years that summer visits may or may not happen that we are good with that. We would rather have a kid that wants to be with us than a miserable kid that we are stuck with for 2 months!!