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OMG Yuck hasn't gotten out of JR HIGH!

purpledaisies's picture

The boys are to be here for spring break which means we were supposed to get them fri after school. RIIIGGHHHTTT never goes that way.

So this is how it went...ss16 had to work fri night no big deal right? Wrong! She had a HUGE deal out of him having to go back yo HER house b/c it was too late for him to be out. :? Ok whatever. Then ss12 HAD homework, WHO has homework during spring break?? :? Really whatever so he stayed there fri night to do it. So dh picked up ss14 only fri night.

Sat morn both ss16 and 12 were supposed to be on their way to house in ss16 car. Well about 10am dh was wondering where they were and texted ss16 no answer. So he finally texted yuck. She texted back that ss16 won't get out of bed and he is disrespecting her and this went on for a LONG time. with dh telling her she needs to put her foot and down and her giving excuses for what is going on and why she can't get them out of bed. Yeah ss16 is a TEEN hello yuck of course he is going to want to get out of bed but you are his MOTHER!

After all that shit and about 2 hours or so of this going back and forth with dh telling her she is the mom and to act like it yuck texts that she isn't going to do anything b/c she didn't want her last few hours to be in tormoral. They didn't get here til 5pm!

So when they got here ss16 said that they got up about 11 and while they were getting ready yuck said that they needed to eat and she left and didn't come back for hours! Then when she did she was saying they have to do this or that before they could leave!

So in other words yuck was the one prolonging them from getting out of the house for the most part! Now they are kids and teens at that so i know that they were probably not moving that fast and you have to light a fire under their butts to get them to move. However it sounds like yuck didn't do that and she made up reasons why they couldn't leave all the while telling dh it was all the kids fault. Now it also says in their CO that she is responsible for them getting her on time and when they are supposed too.

I know this wrong but geez i don't want to say anything or do anything when they go back and see how long it takes them to get home! }:)

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snoopyinoz's picture

Quickest way to get them moving. Marbles. Put a bag of marbles in the freezer overnight when they won't get up dump the marbles on them. No matter where they roll the marbles roll. My dad did that to me ONCE after that I got my ass up

purpledaisies's picture

We live an hour away but i think the whole thing boiled down to that she wanted to dh to be the bad guy. Then when she realized dh wasn't going to she stopped texting hence the I don;t want the last few hours to be in turmoil. I did tell dh that he should tell her that he didn't want is time to be in turmoil either! }:)