Since SS's are still in the state's care, FDH has to pay the state but not the mortgage company and not the difference to Bottom Feeder...its still the same amount and I don't quite understand why she doesn't have to pay anything. On a side note FDH says she looks more like a train wreck than she did last month in court. We also found out that her visits via phone and in person to the SS's has to be supervised and one of the social workers has already reported her for filling the kids' heads with her crqp. She's told them they will be going back to her and they will only see FDH on weekends, etc...I got to see SS7 Saturday with FDH it was six hours and emotionally exhausting. He was okay at times then would freak and have a fit that hes not getting privileges when be misbehaves that other kids do get when they do. There were 2 or 3 of the 30 minute talking him down episodes, and after we left he got so upset his caregiver called to have FDH talk him down again. Of course he was happy as a clam after that bc he was getting more time with us while the other kids were on an outing he was not allowed to go on. I understand he has problems, I REALLY do, but dang, he's got to be held accountable without FDH around to talk him down...sigh....