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Conference Call for update on SS7's evals

pixiedust10's picture

FDH told me last night that he was contacted by SS7s case worker at the residential behavioral facility asking what time this afternoon was a good time for a conference call between her, dfcs case worker, a rep from another agency (???), and...Bottom Feeder...sigh

The purpose of the call was supposed to be for the parents and dfcs to be advised of how SS7s is doing, how his meds are working, what the evaluations are determining about his behavior disorder, etc.

He informs me after the call that BM had an unrelated person on the phone to help her understand what was being told to her. For real. She has to have an advocate to wipe her ass too I bet. Big no no, the other parties weren't happy about this.

FDH wasn't able to find out what agency the other rep was from because.....BM would not shut up. For an entire hour the dfcs and other reps were being argued with. She still thinks no one knows what is REALLY wrong with SS7 except her and she thinks the only reason they were taken is bc of FDH supposedly hitting SS and she is just a victim of the system because of her difficult child and that they need to just decide when SS's go back to her.

The parties tried to remind her numerous times the kids were taken because of the problem and calls received about HER environment. She kept going back to above comments.

Finally after an hour of her ranting, FDH asked politely if he could be disconnected because the conversation was not about what it should have been and if at a later time on a call without BM could he please be called regarding the update on SS7.

Sigh..........

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BSgoinon's picture

Did they agree to call him back and give him the update?

I want to strangle this woman. I swear, you can't just make this shit up, but WHO is this stupid (as your BM)!?!?

pixiedust10's picture

Ok Cheri we can change her name. I'm good with that. I AM physically ill. I don't sleep, I don't eat well, I'm on edge, Ive broke down crying or just yelling or beating my pillow (privately) twice in the last month. I can't imagine and I LIVE it. I'm a mom, and I can't wrap my head around her.

Bsgoinon, yes they did say they would speak to him at another time, I will definitely update. I dont understand why she's so dumb either. She's been an expert at working her family, her church, and the system for years now. She has even had people in a program in her county come to her home to help counsel and foster her relationship with the SS's.

whatwasithinkin's picture

I told ya before, these Mom's the really sick mentally ill Mom's they are just different and so confusing. You all realize that this women really does love her children in some completely dementia type way. Some bat shit left park shit. Can you imagine watching this.

Pix you are so strong. Im sure your all over the spectrum right now. I was. Rage, sadness, pity. Your a good person and a damned good wife.

I hope you husband knows that. Good, bad or indifferent always have his back

pixiedust10's picture

You are right. The GAL says sadly, BM really thinks that she has done nothing wrong and its everyone else's fault.

whatwasithinkin's picture

i told you in that PM that night, there are all diff types of BM. we have the special type which is the reason you dont here much abt the BM in my picture. I cant complain about mental illness, well I can but since it frustrates me trying to "reason" her bat shit crazy thought processes...i dont even try