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I guess SD16 colored her hair blue-green which has now stained my tub. DH is mad (not sure if at me for making him aware or SD for causing it). I have not said anything about it because I am utterly and completely pissed off.

Now I know DH will probably play it off with SD as not a big deal so no expectations, no disappoinments. I will just give the cold shoulder and silent treatment for a couple days.

I will make sure she showers in his shower the rest of the visit.

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Oh I'm sure the towels are stained bit she uses old towels. I put my good towels when she visits.

The tub is very old but in pretty good condition other than being a bit porris. I color my hair and have never had a problem.

I was just blamed for rubbing it in his face when telling him he needed to look at the tub which he told me I could do if he missed something. I went off him.

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Oh the gloves have come off. He will be moving her to his bathroom and whatever else I want. He will do whatever it takes to fix my tub. Basically, if he's smart, he will be my B for however long I deem necessary to make things right.

He will know I mean business and "sorry" won't cut it.

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Sent H a text saying that her things are in his bathroom and to please let her know. MY bathroom door is closed (no lock).

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H is all apologetic now saying he's not mad at me. He was just having a bad morning. OK whatever. She's still sharing a bathroom with you. I've had to deal with it long enough. He take over now.

I think he's realizing I've been pushed to my limit. I've done things for him out of love and now I'm doing this out of love for myself.

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H got the stain out. SD is officially moved out of my bathroom.

SD has not said one word to me which I could care less if she does. H keeps talking about SD which I'm ignoring. SD is going to be here until Thursday afternoon. H thought he'd let me know. Gee thanks!

I have retired to bed so I can watch the Voice finale in peace.