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F***ing ILs !!!!!!!!!! Stupid rant, just have to get it out

OhNoYouDidNot's picture

I officially am allergic to my ILs!!! They do this shit to royally f*** over DH by siding with psycho BM and playing games with him about the skids!!!! WTF?!?! All DH ever asked is that want to see the skids, they should go through him - how f***ing hard is that??? The ILs think they're hiding their relationship with psycho BM (the excuse: "We don't want to get involved. We do it for the skids" < sniff sniff driveling bullshit sniff > and we've just been surprised on skype with the presence of mini-psycho BM at the ILs, the SD wHo's refused to see us for over a year!!!! WTF again?!?!

The day starts today with MIL writing to me that I didn't send an invite to SIL for my BD's christening! YES I DID! OPEN YOUR EMAIL, TWIT! There was NO mention of SD visiting her, but MIL concentrated on making a f***ing drama about it when I was in the middle of a presentation at work, bombarding me with text messages about it!!! Come f***ing on, already!!! None of the ILs were interested in our wedding (lots of criticism, though) and NO ONE congratulated me on the birth of BD, so why the f*** are they so interested in BD's christening?!?!?

So the drama continues, I yell at DH about his mother and he tells me he will talk to his brother (husband of angry SIL) tonight to stop the drama. When BIL skypes, guess who pops her psycho head into the screen for a split second??? OMfreakingG!!!!!! Both DH and I were speechless!!!! WTF thrice?!?!? I have to disinfect my eyes!!!!!

This little shit has caused us too much heartache this past year with her lies and accusations that I find it hard to EVER want to see her again - believe me, she is NO CHILD any longer!!! I could forgive the situation if SD were a child and unaware of the impact lies can make, but this child is in need for some serious therapy!

These ILs have repeatedly disregarded my DH's parental role by enabling and indulging the skids with money and material items, and for "apologizing" that their father (my DH) is not such a nice person. Oh poor skids, children of divorce bullshit, we'll take care of you... :sick:

F*** you, ILs!

Thanks for reading me, I feel better after my rant and saying lots of bad words }:)

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Madam Hedgehog's picture

Yep. My inlaws are pretty similar. It's complete garbage and they are enabling BM's bullshit and hurting SD with their nonsense. Rant away. And then stop talking to them. Seriously, I have no contact with my SIL and it is SO MUCH BETTER. We have minimal contact with FIL and MIL, but if they are critical or disinterested when we have a baby I will cut them out as well. These people are not your family. Cut them out and move on with your life.