So it seems that BM is in terrible financial trouble. We are not surprised, well maybe just a bit that it took so long.

She built a vacation home with her exBF, they broke up just as it was finished. She couldn't afford to live in it, so she rented it out, while it was for sale. It was eventually sold and a tidy profit was made. She refused to give exBF any of the proceeds, saying he left and she had all the responsibilities of the house, and he sued her.

The proceeds were split but because she kept all the rental income, she had to pay him his share. So in the end she got a lot less of the proceeds than she thought she'd be getting and had to pay lawyers and court fees. We also discovered that she had to have the skids cosign the 4th mortgage. It then went into foreclosure and she had to find a 5th mortgage! Luckily, it finally sold and the skids credit is still good. Who does that to their children???

Now her primary home is in foreclosure and she's had to get renters in or she'll lose it. She tried to sell it last year but was asking too much and cannot sell it for less or she won't have any money to even rent. What the h#ll did she do with all the rent money (her primary home was rented out for most of this time, she lived in Resort town with friends) and the money from the sale??

Because of all of this, BM has moved in with SD, her SO, and his 3 children! She is not working, not paying any rent, and is talking about going back to school for admin at 60 years old. Oh my.

Our fear is that this will affect SD and her SOs relationship. They are really good together and are planning a wedding in 2024. If they were to break up, both SD and BM would be homeless and jobless. SD works with her SO!