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nettie's picture

hello everyone,

well is been a long week and it's friday that means she will be here for the weekend.my husband is looking for a place to live with her at the monment .
i can't stand her anymore..she be allover him and the stuff that most sds do.

as im reading all the blogs here i see myself in almost in every blogs.
a little of three years ago i got a habitat for the humanity home been living here for almost three years now...i met my husband when we were building ..i thought i was the luckies person around. we was great up until we got married. then its was down hill from there..i mean she even wanted to come on our honeymoon and stay with us on the nite of the wedding.the list goes on and on....it never stops...but she comes first i work so hard to have a nice home and a good marriage but no my home is not so nice ..because they are pigs and no marriage beacuse she comefirst....i've a long way to come to this ...thanks for listening....i feel so alone right now.....

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Anonymous's picture

THANKS, I REMMBER AT ONE TIME ME AND SD WERE CLOSE BUT AS SOON AS HE CAME BACK FROM IRAQ ITS WAS ALL OVER FOR ME...SHE JUST KICK RIGHT OUT
HE BEEN HOME FOR OVER TWO YEARS NOW....ALWAYS CRYING THAT HE LOVES ME MORE THAN HER...WHICH IS NOT TRUE ,IVE TRY EVERYHING AND DID WHATS WAS BEST FOR HER....THATS WAS ALWAYS MY CONCERN....IM WALKING ON EGGSHELL AT THIS PIONT....THERE NOTHING WORST THAN LIVING WITH SOMEONE WHO DOSEN'T LIKE YOU ...BELIVE ME I ALWAYS HAVE THAT LOOK AND KEEP MY MOUTH SHUT BUT HOW MUCH MORE...CAN SOME TAKE.....
JUST WANT TO FEEL JUST AS IMPORTANT ...I DON'T FEEL I HAVE HIS SUPPORT.. WE DONT EVEN HAVE A PVT TIME ANYMORE ITS BEEN ALMOST THREE MONTHS.....SINCE WE YOU KNOW.....FEELING LONELY ...BUT THANKS ITS HELPING ME TO KNOW I CAN RELATED WITH EVERYONE....HERE

HAVE A GREAT WEEKEND!!!

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need2vent's picture

Nettie,you sound so sad, it breaks my heart. You sound like astrong woman who is working hard toward having a good life.Hang in there and rather then focusing on them , start trying to truly focus on you , doing things for you , thinking baout what makes you happy and goals you have.Keep sharing with everyone.
So many times they don't see that the spouse is there for life, and though our children are always just that ,which is wonderful and always important to us, the objective is to raise them to be independant and have their own lives.

nettie's picture

AS I LOOK BACK...I REMMBER WHEN I MET MY HUSBAND I WAS IMPORTANT FOR ABOUT FIVE MINS ...WE DATED AND ABOUT A FEWS WEEKS IN TO THE DATING
I MET SD WE GOT ALONG....I THOUGHT IT WAS CUTE...AND HE IS A GOOD FATHER AND ALL THAT JAZZ...THEN WE WENT ON VACATION FOR THE FIRST TIME...THATS WHERE I SAW THE SPOILED LIL GIRL AND CRYING AND SCREAMING
THEN I STEP IN TO CALM HER DOWN .BUT EVEN THEN I DIDNT SEE THE TRAIN COMMING..BECAUSE IT JUST CONTINUE. THIS IS IN THE FOUR YEARS MAKING...ON THAT VACATION AFTER HER CRYING AND KICKING AND SCREAMING THAT NIGHT THEY SHARE THE MOONLITE ON THE BACOLNY AND I WAS LEFT OUT LIKE I WASN'T EVEN THERE.....I SAID WTF...I JUST FELT REALLY FUNNY BUT I DIDNT SEE IT THEN.....ITS ALL COMMING BACK TO ME...WHAT A LIL TIME TO YORSELF DO FOR YOU...STILL FEEL LIKE SHIT NOW THAT HE HIS OWN PLACE....I WISH IT COULD HAVE BEEN DIFFERENT....I SEE MY SELF IN ALMOST EVERY BLOG I READ HERE THANKS GUYS....IM SO HAPPY I FOUND THIS PLACE.....