Bullying, boundary crossing, bogus bragging brat!
Almost 20 years with DH,(SD32 and SS38).SS,wife,and Sgk's are great. SD has disrespected our marriage from day one,stealing,splitting parents turning against each other,typical stuff. BM married to lover from adultery which caused DH to divorce her.
SD tries to set up "gatherings" on days when I'm at work,taking pics with the BM and my DH,pretending her parents are "still together".
My mother in law refuses to accept our marriage telling me, "oh they(BM and DH)just fell in and out of love at the wrong times but they still love each other"? WTH? MIL calls my cellphone to tell my husband about BM getting into a motorcycle accident,consequently cheating on her husband,she and the driver were both intoxicated killing the driver of the motorcycle they were on. I firmly told my MIL to stop involving us in the ex's business and leave us out of it! I hung up once she wouldn't stop bantering,I get a phone call minutes later from the SD,yelling at me about "her Nana's feelings being hurt",I hung up on her too and haven't made myself available for babysitting, errands, etc.
DH and I were cutoff of social media by SD and not invited to Sgk's b-day, since the motorcycle affair that BM had she moved in with SD and is getting divorced. I just don't want to hear anything anymore about the "poor BM",my DH stays quiet, doesn't set boundaries with his mom,his sisters',daughter,or BM. Reading other stories helped, no more gifts,nothing from me.